Premature Ejaculation - Are You the First To Finish? by Tan Marsden

Being a men myself, egotism plays a major role in dictating being the first is a compulsion for most guys, be it on the road, at the job or in the gym. However, there are instances where being the first may not be an esteem booster at all. Especially when coming to sex, being the first to finish is the last place we want to be. Yet somehow that's where millions of men are ending up at - ejaculate too soon. Especially in the recent years, ejaculating prematurely has become a common problem to many young men around the world.
Premature ejaculation is mostly a psychological problem which is broadly defined as an inability to control the timing of your climax as you'd like. Some experts say it is an ejaculation that arrives less than 2 minutes while others say a premature ejaculation occurs in less than 50 thrusts. So how fast is fast? Ultimately, it boils down to your partner. What's important is the enjoyment you and your partner get, whether it's measured in hours or seconds.

Ejaculation occurs due to stimulation to a point where muscle contractions begin mixing with ejaculatory fluids with sperm, called semen. Rythmic contractions from muscles near the base of your penis then drive the semen up and out of your urethra. With your mind, you can control ejaculation just like controlling your breadthing while jogging. With sufficient training, you can discover your ejaculation triggers - the touches, caresses and kisses that excite you most-and use them to pace your encounter.

And lastly, if you are a first timer without any sexual experience, you may tend to feel anxious about the sensations and ejaculating too soon may occur. If you experience pain ejaculating or suspect a physical cause or medication related problem, see a urologist.



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Premature ejaculation can be one of the most embarassing health concerns and it is understable that many men would rather keep it between the couple. If not treated early, it may eventually has adverse effect on one's career and love life. To know more about how you can take your time on love's highway, please visit http://www.manhealthzone.com/sexualhealth.php now.