Knowing when the time is right to kiss a girl can be a dilemma for some, if you move in too early she'll think you're needy and if you move in to late you lack confidnece to make the first move.
Last night I was out coaching one of my Sydney bootcamps and I came across Emily, she is fun, single, loves sex (so she said) and adores guinea pigs, she has one now and his name is sparkels.
I love women who love animals, especially ginea pigs and rabbits. In my earler years working as a freelance magician-for-hire I've owned many rabbits, 2 died within the first 2 months and the rest ran away.
I took this as a sign that someone upstairs deemed it fit for me not to own any more animals.
Onto emily ...
I was making her giggle like a school girl for the first 5 minutes and I knew it was time to 'get serious' so I said I needed to ask her something important and dragged her away from her freinds.
Emily being 23 years of age (same as me) gave me a serious look as though what I'm about to say was infact important.
Alex: Hey can you take a sincere compliemt? Emily: Yes....ofcourse I can (looking flattered) Alex: good to hear...so can I...okay we'll take turns, you go first! Emily: what??!! hahaha
Sometimes it helps to have a small arsenal of one liners up your sleeve...
Alex: If I was going to ask you on a scale of one to ten how good a kisser you are...what would you say? Emily: hmmm....tricky.....I would say I'm an eight Alex: whoa..someone thinks very high of temselves dont we.... Emily: what?! hahahah Alex: okay...only a peck...no tounge lashing... Emily: ......
When the time comes to kiss a girl you'l have a gut instinct that NOW is the time...
There is no 'perfect' way to kiss a girl or 'secret' tactic I can teach you...
The line above works for me about 60/40 of the time... when I get a miss I shrug it off... and try again later.
Teh worst thing you can do is look taken back or REACTING to her not kissing you, if you look like you're pissed that she said no then you've LOST THE GAME.
Neediness is the #1 turn off...
Look like you dont care (dont say this) just give her a look like "haha you're funny...I know I'm going to kiss you later"
Practice doing this "LOOK"
It's very powerful not reacting to this...and you should practice giving women this look...
Here are a few top tips for kissing I suggest you follow for getting the kiss ...
Isolate her She'll be more up to kissing you if her firends aren't watching, she ofcourse doesnt want to be labbled by her female friends as a 'dirty' flirt or kisisng random guys... So isolate her away from her firends simply by holding her hand and sayig" hey let me borrow you for a second come over here I need to ask you something important"
Sit both of you down She;'ll feel alot more comfortable sitting down and kissing than standing up. Sit her down and look around occasionly to let her know she's not the most important thing int he room to you, make plenty of eye contact and sit REAL close to her
Eye contact IMPOARTNT IMPOARTANT IMPORTANT You must have good eye contact and avoid looking away. High status men are not afraid of making eye contact wherad low status males avoid eye contact for fear of being "found out". I'll explain this later.
Hold both her hands and "test the water" test this to see how receptive she is to holding your hands, if she resits (even a little) then she;s not ready to be kissed. If she's doesnt notice it or she's very touchy feely with YOU then move in now for the kiss!
Dont Hesitate No time for rational thought here guys, just act on the instingt and go for it. It looks and feels so much more natural just going in for it as opposed to waiting 40 minutes to gauge whether she's ready...women like men who are spontanuis so dont hesitate when going in for the kiss... If there's oonly one peice of advice you walk away from reading this then this should be it : )
Dont ask for permission This is a no brainer ; )
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Kissing is a powerful tool to "solidify" your dates, when you kiss a girl on the night she met you she's more likely to answer her phone when you call and actually meet up with as opposed to flaking on you.
You can also add that you can tell whether she's a good girl or a bad girl by the way she kisses : ) I LOVE doing this. Tell her that if she has a sloppy kiss then she's bad in bed, if she kisses with no tounge you're a good little choir girl that I'll probly corrupt and take advantage of, if she uses her tounge then she's a bad girl and needs to be tamed.
Women love guys who talk very sexual like this about silly non-sensical things like kissing. Also goes on to say you can literally use this for ANYTHING..
I get a feeling you're a bad girl becasue
I can go on forever : )
Talk soon
Alex
Alex Coulson has been a core leader in the ever evolving dating industry, he holds cutting-edge dating workshops/courses every weekend around Australia and regularly holds dating seminars on attracting women internationally.
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12/30/2007
Kissing Tips For Men- 5 Ways To Score the Perfect Kiss by Alex Coulson
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