Is Fetish Really A Bad Word? by Bunnie

Sadly, even in today's society, the term fetish usually envokes disgust or embarassment among people. Given that there are hundreds if not thousands of websites and magazines that are dedicated to a particular fetish, you should ask yourself why then do people react this way? With such a large audience for these publications fetishes must be more common than many people think.
The thousands of magazines and websites dedicated to particular fetishes must have a pretty large audience or they wouldn't continue operating. There is no harm in having a particular fantasy or fetish as long as it doesn't hurt anyone that doesn't want to be hurt. Certainly knowing that there are obviously hundreds of thousands if not millions of people that share some propensity for a particular fetish gives doubt to the idea that people should be embarassed. Sharing a fantasy or fetish with your partner can not only enhance your love life but also be a very liberating feeling.

Everyone likes sex a bit differently. These differences include positions, pillow talk, and foreplay, among others. Just like there are things that we all like a bit differently about the actual act of sex, there are differences between what turns us on. Some people like feet, others are particularly attracted to breasts, butts, or perhaps it's more involved like an S&M or bondage type fetish. These are all very common fetishes and fantasies and as long as you only share them with others that feel the same, then there is no harm done.

A lot of people think having a fetish means they must have a deviant personality. They get embarassed by it and keep it to themselves rather than sharing it with anyone, even their closet friends or partners. Obviously most don't want to share their personal fantasies or fetishes with the bridge club, but people should feel comfortable sharing them with their intimate partners.

Want to become a better partner? Loosen up, share your fantasies and fetishes with your patner and then have fun with it. Sexual exploration should be exciting and can be a wonderful thing. If you haven't figured out yet how to explore your sexuality in a fun, safe and sane way then your doing yourself and your partner a disservice. Embrace your fantasies and fetishes if for no other reason so you can be a better partner.



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